fix: use new import.meta.webpackHmr to account for esm

[edusperoni]

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What is the current behavior?

Sometimes with angular 13 hmr will trigger a restart instead of a reload due to module['hot'] not being replaced by webpack.

What is the new behavior?

We use the new esm import.meta to get that information.