Remove SelectExpression private logic out to the translation visitors, making it a minimal, regular expression node

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SelectExpression is currently a non-extensible type with private state, and code closed behind APIs such as ApplyDistinct, ClearOrderings etc. which are invoked from e.g. RelationalQueryableMethodTranslatingExpressionVisitor. This makes it impossible to extend the logic in providers.

As an example, during translation we currently create a SQL Server OPENWITH/WITH expression, with an ordering to preserve the JSON array's natural ordering. We then have a post-processing visitor which detects if the ordering is still there, and replaces OPENWITH/WITH with OPENWITH without WITH (since OPENWITH/WITH doesn't support natural ordering). A better design here would be to create the ordered version (without WITH), and when ClearOrderings is called (e.g. because IN/EXISTS/COUNT are applied), transform the OPENWITH at that point.

But since ClearOrderings() is a SelectExpression API, we cannot override it and add this SQL Server-specific logic. If the ClearOrderings() logic were moved to RelationalQueryableMethodTranslatingEV, we could - but that would also require moving out all SelectExpression logic which depends on it (e.g. ApplyDistinct). We'd need to very carefully consider SelectExpression's private state, and whether that remains on SelectExpression (with specific APIs to manipulate it), or whether it moves to the visitor as well.

Note that we have other examples where we visit the query tree in pre-processing - we ideally shouldn't need to do that, but rather perform the function as part of translation.

Work:

• Track prunability of inner joins on the expression itself  #32674: moved out the "removable joins list".
• Move all pruning code to the pruner and make it an immutable visitor  #32817: moved out all pruning logic to the pruning visitor.
• Redo query column/table relationship without TableReferenceExpression  #32812: removed TableReferenceExpression and the private list tracking it.

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Similar example: in postprocessing, we have SelectExpressionPruningExpressionVisitor which calls SelectExpression.Prune, which removes unreferenced projected columns from SelectExpression. Ideally we'd also remove e.g. the OPENWITH WITH fragments for unused columns. This would mean the logic needs to move out to the visitor, which the SQL Server provider would then override and augment.

Note that the current architecture - where the logic is encapsulated inside SelectExpression rather than inside a real visitor - also leads to pruning not working well, see #31083.

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Another case: when we add a translated SqlExpression to a SelectExpression (e.g. as a predicate), we call AssignUniqueAliases on it; this runs the AliasUniquifier visitor on it, taking the SelectExpression's _usedAliases into account, and uniquifies any aliases within the SqlExpression.

However, #31078 was filed because we weren't performing that uniquification on SqlExpressions in UPDATE setters. Since these aren't on SelectExpression, AssignUniqueAliases was made pubternal so it could be called from RelationalQueryableMethodTranslatingEV.

If the used aliases were kept as state on RelationalQueryableMethodTranslatingEV (instead of inside SelectExpression), we could also implement this as part of translation rather than doing an additional visitation on each SqlExpression just for alias uniquification.